{"id":71407,"date":"2014-02-12T08:55:53","date_gmt":"2014-02-11T21:55:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/?p=71407"},"modified":"2014-11-11T15:32:41","modified_gmt":"2014-11-11T04:32:41","slug":"french-thread-paris","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/2014\/02\/12\/french-thread-paris\/","title":{"rendered":"What&#8217;s your French thread\u2122 story?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><a href=\"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/MaisonBalzac19Nov2013-41.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazyload alignright  wp-image-71432\" src=\"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/MaisonBalzac19Nov2013-41.jpg\" data-orig-src=\"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/MaisonBalzac19Nov2013-41.jpg\" alt=\"French thread - Cultural immersion - theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\" width=\"259\" height=\"260\" srcset=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns%3D%27http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%27%20width%3D%27259%27%20height%3D%27260%27%20viewBox%3D%270%200%20259%20260%27%3E%3Crect%20width%3D%27259%27%20height%3D%27260%27%20fill-opacity%3D%220%22%2F%3E%3C%2Fsvg%3E\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/MaisonBalzac19Nov2013-41-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/MaisonBalzac19Nov2013-41-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/MaisonBalzac19Nov2013-41-220x220.jpg 220w, https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/MaisonBalzac19Nov2013-41.jpg 1428w\" data-sizes=\"auto\" data-orig-sizes=\"(max-width: 259px) 100vw, 259px\" \/><\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>As an adult, many different reasons compel you to learn French, including the captivating and sometimes seductive chance to spend time in France. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Last December, I joined a group visit to the <a href=\"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/2014\/02\/25\/musees-de-paris-la-maison-de-balzac\/\" target=\"_blank\">Maison Balzac<\/a> and Mus\u00e9e Fragonard organised for the students of the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.alliancefr.org\/en\" target=\"_blank\">Alliance Fran\u00e7aise de Paris \u00cele-de-France<\/a> As we wandered I thought: this is one of those essential experiences that perfectly complements the study of a language.<\/p>\n<p>Above all, learning French in Paris and meandering through places as romantic and enchanting as these is a moment of shared pleasure.<\/p>\n<p>Everything would have gone so well, if not for the frustration I felt at not being able to better get acquainted with the students \u2013 neither the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.paris.fr\/pratique\/musees-expos\/maison-de-balzac\/p6837\" target=\"_blank\">Maison Balzac<\/a> nor the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fragonard.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Mus\u00e9e Fragonard<\/a> could transform itself into a living room where we could chat.<\/p>\n<p>I then had the idea to invite those with whom, despite everything, I had been able to exchange a few words, to come to my apartment to celebrate an ancient tradition \u2013 eating <i>la galette<\/i> and drawing the King at the start of January.<\/p>\n<address><span style=\"color: #d10a26;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/2014\/02\/12\/french-thread-paris-2\/\" target=\"_blank\">Cliquez ici<\/a> pour lire cet article en fran\u00e7ais.<\/span><\/address>\n<h3>Sharing French traditions <i>chez moi<\/i><\/h3>\n<p>Thus, on 9 January 2014 at 5pm, \u2018<i>heure du go\u00fbter\u2019, <\/i>Fati and Arezoo from Iran, and Ivanise from Brazil drew the King for the first time, along with <a href=\"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/author\/daisynaylor93gmail-com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Daisy<\/a>, intern for My French Life\u2122.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/Galette9January-003.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazyload aligncenter  wp-image-71427\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns%3D%27http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%27%20width%3D%27823%27%20height%3D%27617%27%20viewBox%3D%270%200%20823%20617%27%3E%3Crect%20width%3D%27823%27%20height%3D%27617%27%20fill-opacity%3D%220%22%2F%3E%3C%2Fsvg%3E\" data-orig-src=\"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/Galette9January-003.jpg\" alt=\"French thread - Cultural immersion - theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\" width=\"823\" height=\"617\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It was Daisy who turned around to ask the question (heard since the far reaches of my childhood) \u201c<i>pour qui celle-l\u00e0<\/i>\u201d or \u201cwho is this one for\u201d. (This is because it must be pure chance that you have the slice in which is hidden the bean that will make you the King or Queen, and wear the crown bought at the same time as <i>la galette<\/i>.)<\/p>\n<p>It was a very warm moment, and I noticed that our three students were very happy to be able to have a new experience where French was the coordinating language. This was our French thread.<\/p>\n<h3>A shared connection &#8211; the French thread\u2122<\/h3>\n<p>I learnt that Fati, Arezoo and Ivanise, aged between 29 and 31, had been in France for less than a year, and had learned little to no French before.<\/p>\n<p>Arezoo is an Electrical Engineering graduate who followed her husband to France for his career as a researcher in Philosophy. She is now ready to explore her creative streak and refocus her own career towards Visual Arts.<\/p>\n<p>Fati obtained a scholarship from her country to do a thesis at l\u2019EHESS (<i>Ecole des Hautes Etudes en Sciences Sociales<\/i>, or the School of Higher Studies in Social Sciences). Her subject deals with the new role of Kurdish women within the political party Komala.<\/p>\n<p>As for Ivanise, her reasons might be called clich\u00e9, but they\u2019re no less genuine &#8211; she has always dreamed of France for the language, the culture, the fashion. She obtained a scholarship to finish her doctorate in Communications here.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/galette.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazyload alignright  wp-image-71649\" src=\"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/galette.jpg\" data-orig-src=\"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/galette.jpg\" alt=\"French thread - Cultural immersion - theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\" width=\"266\" height=\"266\" srcset=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns%3D%27http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%27%20width%3D%27266%27%20height%3D%27266%27%20viewBox%3D%270%200%20266%20266%27%3E%3Crect%20width%3D%27266%27%20height%3D%27266%27%20fill-opacity%3D%220%22%2F%3E%3C%2Fsvg%3E\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/galette-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/galette-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/galette-220x220.jpg 220w, https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/galette.jpg 423w\" data-sizes=\"auto\" data-orig-sizes=\"(max-width: 266px) 100vw, 266px\" \/><\/a>I\u2019m keen to find out if the dream deviates from the reality. Fati and Arezoo agree with Ivanise when she says it doesn\u2019t. France, as they discovered it, did not provoke disappointment when compared to their expectations. They lament only the lack of opportunities to communicate in French, with the French.<\/p>\n<p>I dare to make a suggestion to our two single students: \u201ca French boyfriend maybe?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The answer does not need to be coaxed from them: their friends teased them before they left, convinced that they were definitely going to find \u2018<i>l\u2019Amour<\/i>\u2019 in France!<\/p>\n<p>With humour Arezoo, Fati and Ivanise try to explain why this has proved difficult: at l\u2019EHESS, nobody talks, everybody just works and Ivanise lives in the Cit\u00e9 Universitaire (student accommodation)\u2026 in the Brazilian house!<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the theme of love that brings us to this pleasant moment of sharing and exchange \u2013 and who\u2019s surprised?<\/p>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<p><b>What\u2019s your \u2018French thread<\/b>\u2122&#8217;\u00a0<b>story?\u00a0<\/b><strong>How do you immerse yourself in French culture?<\/strong> Share your advice in the comments below!<\/p>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<address><span style=\"color: #888888;\">Translated by<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/author\/daisynaylor93gmail-com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Daisy Naylor<\/a><span style=\"color: #888888;\">.<\/span>\u00a0<\/address>\n<address>\n<address><span style=\"color: #888888;\">Image credits:<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #888888;\"><span style=\"color: #888888;\"><span style=\"color: #888888;\">1 &amp; 2. \u00a9\u00a0Jacqueline Dubois-Pasquier.<br \/>\n3. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/26255830@N00\/5652998914\/in\/photolist-9Bx6Cw-96AfYA-96kFH1-dPAtnD-iYbDZQ-9aYfZi-dJxe6G-9aWyqe-7zBYkX-7CaW9a-7CeJxJ-7CfPAR-7Cg2fD-7CfXN4-7Cg4HF-7CfS5R-7CjBu3-7CjKzW-7CgAR6-7Ckmmf-7CgP6n-7CkAQL-7CktwY-7CgG8R\" target=\"_blank\">Galette des Rois<\/a>, by Lesteph via Flickr.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/address>\n<address>\n<address><span style=\"color: #888888;\">Proud Partner of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.alliancefr.org\/en\" target=\"_blank\">Alliance fran\u00e7aise Paris \u00cele-de-France (AFPIF)<\/a><\/span><\/address>\n<\/address>\n<\/address>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The immersion into the culture of the country, an exercise in \u2018authentic\u2019 listening comprehension, and finally the opportunity to combine the useful with the fun.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":927,"featured_media":71427,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_editorskit_title_hidden":false,"_editorskit_reading_time":0,"_editorskit_is_block_options_detached":false,"_editorskit_block_options_position":"{}","footnotes":""},"categories":[1098,1089],"tags":[172,196,197,211,213,220,240,253,281,366,373,460,1497],"class_list":["post-71407","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-expat-experience","category-vie-francaise","tag-culture","tag-expat-life","tag-expats","tag-foreign-language","tag-france","tag-french","tag-french-life","tag-french-thread","tag-in-english","tag-paris","tag-passion","tag-vie-francaise-2","tag-expat-experience-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71407","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/927"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=71407"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71407\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/71427"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=71407"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=71407"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theproject.com.au\/myfrenchlife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=71407"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}